Have you ever noticed that you always seem to have the same types of people around you or encounter similar situations repeatedly? You may feel as though you're circling back to the same points. Try changing your approach. Think of ideas you might have missed because you've been focused on other things. Shifting your perspective can open new possibilities, and you might feel as if your life has truly begun.
People come and go, each playing a role in our lives. As the saying goes, it’s all “for personal development.” Some bring pain, anger, or bitterness, while others bring happiness that helps us forget our troubles, if only temporarily.
Being an architect means planning, designing, and overseeing construction. In the context of life, be the person who charts your own path, designing it in your own unique style, and overseeing the process to shape your desired outcome. Just as architects study for years to understand how structures work, learn how life works, and apply that knowledge to your journey.
Change is something that comes from within.
In Sharing My Light and Healing Energy: Journey to True Self, Gresson Peiffer wrote, “Don’t expect someone else to come and save you. That is why I do my best to look at people in my life to understand what they are trying to teach me. What lesson do I need to learn from the pain or wounds I received from them?” People are our mentors, teaching us through experience. But ultimately, we choose the path and outcome.
How our lives unfold is up to us. No matter who is by our side or how much we care for them, we have the power to decide whether to move forward or step back to avoid being drawn into unnecessary complications.
Just as an architect creates projects with a vision, we should approach our lives with purpose. Whether our goals are big or small, achieving them requires commitment and intentional effort. Each deliberate step adds significance.
An architect must be meticulous, as even small mistakes can impact the entire project. When errors happen, architects adjust their plans based on feedback and changing conditions to meet requirements. Flexibility is a skill we should embrace, as spontaneous changes are inevitable.
Making decisions that align with our goals helps us avoid wasting time on unproductive pursuits. As architects of our lives, we should be mindful of our actions, ensuring they contribute to our overall objectives.
Taking pauses to monitor progress is essential—just as architects review their designs. Assess whether you’re on the right path. This allows you to identify any overlooked elements, make adjustments, and stay engaged with your goals.
Reflection is crucial, even for an architect. It helps refine plans, highlights effective approaches, and brings fresh perspectives. By addressing any gaps that may hold us back, we can set new plans aligned with our evolving vision.
Be the architect of your life. Like architects whose projects often become landmarks, focus on creating a lasting impact that you can be proud of. By viewing your life as a project you design and build, you empower yourself to create a fulfilling and meaningful journey.
by Alleah Kassandra V. Dela